Dear Brinkley, We are in the process of finding our new forever house. I took a job in New Orleans, LA so that we could be near the coast. We can talk more about all that later, but I just wanted to get some thoughts out about how to find the perfect place. There is a house that we all love....but I don't think we need to get it. It's a difficult process to balance all the things that would be best for our family. I can just see myself cooking in that kitchen, looking over in the living room while you and your Daddy play cars or color. I can just see myself sitting on that incredibly peaceful back porch, looking over the big yard to the bayou, while you throw the frisbee to Cooper or ride your jeep. I can just see myself playing with you in the yard, driving the RZR around and making mud puddles. I can just see myself, on a bad day, still feeling at peace and at home in that secluded area, while you ride your bike down the quiet street. But it's not all abou